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Horror Movies
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When it comes to watching movies of horror or thrillers, I admit I’m a tough customer.  For one, I don’t startle easily or get squeamish.  That leaves a lot of horror movies struggling in vein to get my attention.   I … Read More

Fu¢k! – Depression Sucks
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In my workshops I’m very upfront that I struggle with depression and PTSD.  What many people without this struggle don’t often realize is that the reasons why these challenges exist are usually far less important than how we experience them, … Read More

Don’t be an Asshole
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Many of the general rules in life can be summed up pretty easily, and applied nearly universally.  Whether personally or professionally many of the guidelines for behavior are the same.  It doesn’t matter if its interacting with family, friends, lovers, … Read More

Troubling Times
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Food for thought, and emotional triggers ahead, because doesn’t everything.. :-/ Looking at the present day, it seems the very notion of committing to a journey that may be potentially unpleasant is foreign if not abhorrent to people. It’s hard … Read More

Regrets
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If someone ever encourages you to do something, and they say “no regrets”, run the other way – quickly… When someone says “no regrets” it usually means “I’m about to lead you to a series of mistakes probably wouldn’t have … Read More

Acceptance & Release
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All of us are comprised of our pasts, this is the foundation of who we are, and often who we will become.  To the larger extent, we are the sum of our experiences, at any given point.  I don’t know … Read More

More Than Kink
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For the last several years my girl and I have been hosting parties to celebrate Halloween or my Birthday.  This includes a variety of folks from our personal & professional lives and includes diverse personalities with rather eclectic tastes such … Read More

They’re Gonna Get You, Suckas!
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Dear Facebook & “Inter-web” Users I know it seems like innocent fun, but Social Media sites and pages like Facebook are a disaster for IT Security. Very often there are group pages that Appear to be are asking questions to share … Read More

Own Your Assumptions
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This is a bit of a rant, but one I believe indicates a bigger problem with our culture.  It’s a challenge we face every day, in any multitude of ways, in others and ourselves.  What is it that causes so … Read More

Reasons Why I Can’t be a submissive
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Here are my top reasons why I should never ever try be a submissive… and if I did why it would be an epic Fail.  (Trigger warning: will certainly contain acerbic and sarcastic language). Wise Ass – If I don’t respect … Read More

Reject the Fight
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Simple put and as straightforward as possible – I will not FIGHT. I will listen to another communicate their thoughts and feelings. I will discuss issues and attempt to cooperatively resolve problems. I will engage in academic discourse and civilized … Read More

Events & Appearances
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I wanted to ensure word gets out to these great events in which we are happy to present.  I have found these events to be highly ethical, responsible, and overall responsive.  Where people are gathered there is sure to be … Read More

Illusions of Community
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In the various media outlets we’ve seen an explosion in terms of sexual misconduct.  The exposure crosses all facets of life, be it in our politics, entertainment, captains of industry, educators, and trusted contributors in society.  The matter, when taken … Read More

FetLife Picture & Video Search
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In response on original post PSA: Ladies, John Baku Is Using You FetLife has long been moving towards (and clearly HAS moved) into a (1) porn site, (2) pickup/dating site. If anyone looks at the general direction of all social … Read More

Personal Ethics
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Many folks know me as a very principled individual. While sometimes to my own detriment, I can usually say that I have well-formed and consistent values and principles which I try my very best to uphold. That does not mean … Read More

Happy New Year to All
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Wishing everyone a great New Year of happiness, health, and wealth. But please, don’t rely on the wishes alone – Make it a great new year.  🙂  

A Reluctant Leader?
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Anyone that knows me well knows that I HATE being front and center and acting as a “leader”.  I have said in the past I’m not a leader, no group is “my group”, I own nothing.  I’m just a facilitator, … Read More

Waters of March
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The holidays can be a difficult time for many. The family commitments, relationship pressures, mass consumer frenzy, raised expectations expertly dashed, end-of-year workplace crush, colds & flu.  Its enough to create a hole from which you feel is all encompassing. … Read More

Fractious Community
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I have often said that there really is no such thing as “community”. Its a term, one used far too often, that tries to build inclusion with its use. But for a community to exist it needs to share values, … Read More

Patience & Choices
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Patience is perhaps one of those things I struggle with most, and is at odds with itself, depending on the nature of the situation demanding patience. I have found myself incredibly short on patience when dealing with little things, general … Read More

Thankfulness
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It seemed apropos to write a post on Thankfulness. By this, I mean the feeling or expression of gratitude, appreciation, or value that one finds in something or someone.  Within the USA we are about to begin the Thanksgiving holiday, … Read More

We’re Doomed
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Doooooooomed… Recently, several news sources have revealed that more than 15,000 scientists have signed a dire warning letter to humanity, urging society to address major environmental concerns.  Titled as a “Second Notice,” the stern warning comes 25 years after similar … Read More

Get Off the Road!
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Drivers have gotten worse over the years… I feel confident in saying that without reservation.  Lane weaving, sudden changes in speed, last minute cutoffs, no turn signals, no headlights at night, etc. It should come as little surprise that this trend … Read More

Learning is Fundemental
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I Love Learning Things I believe that if you haven’t learned something new or reviewed something forgotten then you’ve missed a big part of life. It almost doesn’t matter what the topic is (unless its about pro sports) I love … Read More

Apologies
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So I’ve been VERY remiss in updating this site, in part because I’ve been really busy, in part because I’m just not a social media person. I like real F2F connections in small numbers, not typically big groups nor faceless … Read More

Purpose & Meaning of Life
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… and no, its not “42”.  Reality, I’ve found, is somewhere between reaching for the stars and buried beneath the earth.  Where exactly is it?  Well, that is up to significant debate.  While some who know me recognize I tend … Read More

Quiet Time
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If its one thing I love, its peace and quiet.  This weekend was a near perfect reflect of this value.  I joined a friend of mine and fellow kungfu practitioner in the Ny Catskills region near a very quiet lake … Read More

Don’t Confuse Confidence and Narcissisim
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You are either going to be with me on this, or dead set against it.  If the former its likely because you’ve watched enough situations unfold that you know feel you have enough evidence to believe it.  If its the … Read More

Healthcare for the Whole You
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By now most people have either seen the viral twitter feed that has been shared about one womans need to take some time as a “mental health day”.  If not, one source can be found at the end of this … Read More

Guy Left In Tears After Trying To Grope Woman…
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A post on BoredPanda was, IMHO, pretty awesome in that a groping bastard got exactly what he deserved – a thorough ass kicking.  Though several seem to disagree, the casual and cavalier attitude you can just do what you want … Read More

Disturbing Threat to Sexual Consent
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According to several sources, North Carolina has taken a disturbing step backwards by recently citing a law where a woman can’t back out of sex once underway. As reported by several news organizations, the courts in N.C. has ruled that … Read More

New Site Launch
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Welcome!! Greetings and welcome to my new site Inside.LimitsUnleashed I’m Sir Vice, and I’m starting this new blog site because folks I meet have been asking me about the Person behind the posts, articles, and presentations.  My primary site LimitsUnleashed will continue … Read More